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10 Simple Rules
for Online Dating Success
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Online dating is actually quite
easy, safe and relaxing, where else can you initially meet hundreds
of possible life mates from the comforts of your home, however there
are some rules that should be followed for online dating success.
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In theory, online dating is the
ideal way to meet your ‘perfect match’, yet a surprisingly small
percentage of members are actually successful in finding what they
seek online. There are, however, some simple guidelines, which if
implemented, will greatly increase your chances of success in the
online dating arena.
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Tip 1: Firstly, it is
important that you choose the ideal dating
website to suit your particular interest. There
are now many niche areas in online dating, for
example
Match.com® Official Site
and you should use the search engines to find a
selection of dating websites where you consider
you are most likely to find your ideal date.
Tip 2: Once you have located websites in the niche
area of online dating that suit you most, always
visit a handful of them and look for the
administrator contact link. Send an email to the
admin of each website, asking how many full
paying members they have in their database. A
well administered dating
website should reply to your email within a
couple of hours. Admin is all important, and
will be 24/7 on a quality dating site. |
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Tip 3: Never join a free dating website if you are serious about finding
a mate. ‘Free For All’ sites are often littered with incomplete
profiles, and not taken seriously by their membership. A free trial
period is good, but before making your choice of website to join,
check out the member facilities. Do they have a chat room, video
chat, a forum, instant messenger etc? Be wary of dating sites that
do not allow you to search members before joining.
Tip 4: One last thing before you decide on your ideal dating site. Many
dating sites are being infiltrated by scammers often from Africa,
Ghana, Nigeria or Singapore. The IP addresses from these areas can
be blocked by dating sites to save genuine members from being
hassled. A good dating site will use these blocking tactics, and
it’s worth asking the question.
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Tip 5: Once you make your
choice and register with a dating website, you need to
create a profile. Keep to the truth, but make yourself
come across as interesting as possible, and be
reasonably accurate in describing the type of partner
you seek. Including a photograph will certainly increase
your chances of being noticed.
Tip 6: When sending emails to other members, always be
polite and courteous, especially in the first contact
email. First impressions are very important. Always
reply to every email you receive from other members,
even if it’s only to inform them that you are not
interested.
Tip 7: Never give out your bank account or social security
details to anyone. Do not be fooled by requests for
money from people you just met no matter how convincing
their story is or how beautiful or handsome their photos
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that the photos are almost certainly not really them at all
but merely photos of models copied from the Internet. The moment you
are asked for money, cease all conversations with that member and
report the scam to the administrators.
Tip 8: Once you open up contact with a member who you think may interest
you, take your time in getting to know them well. You now have the
opportunity to exchange relevant details about each other, and
exchange photographs. However, in the early communications, don’t
believe all you are told. Trust will come in time.
Tip 9: Photographs often display the date on which they were taken, but
be aware that some members will use old photographs in an effort to
make themselves appear younger than they actually are. If your
dating site has video cam facilities, you can get to see each other
in real time which is useful in determining your prospective mate’s
current appearance.
Tip 10: If you do decide to meet another member for real, always suggest
meeting in a busy area, and keep the first meeting short. Chemistry
is something you just cannot measure through the Internet. It
wouldn’t be much fun spending a weekend with someone who you shared
no chemistry with.
So these are just a few simple but important guidelines which
hopefully will make your online dating experience a pleasant one.
Remember that they are only guidelines and not rules. Everyone is
different and you will need to explore together in order to discover
the higher ground.
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